{"id":2008,"date":"2025-01-17T12:54:34","date_gmt":"2025-01-17T09:54:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sanalulke.org\/?p=2008"},"modified":"2025-02-01T19:10:30","modified_gmt":"2025-02-01T16:10:30","slug":"ergenlik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/ergenlik\/","title":{"rendered":"Ergenlik"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ergenlik baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklarda g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcl\u00fc ge\u00e7mektedir.\u00a0<strong>Depresif ge\u00e7en duygular\u0131na ifade edemeyen \u00e7ocuklar daha da zorlanabiliyorlar.<\/strong> Ailesinin yan\u0131nda duran uslu \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7e ata ata daha sonra depresif olabiliyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ergen anne ve babay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fman olarak g\u00f6rebilir. Onlar d\u00fc\u015fman onlar beni anlam\u0131yor diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir. \u00c7ocuklarla arkada\u015f olmak ile kast edilen onu anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ergenlere_sabirli_davranmak_gerekir\"><\/span>Ergenlere sab\u0131rl\u0131 davranmak gerekir<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Bir ergeni anlamak i\u00e7in ona \u00e7ok\u00e7a sab\u0131r gerekir. Bir civciv gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn onu s\u0131karsan\u0131z \u00f6l\u00fcr, gev\u015fek s\u0131karsan\u0131z ka\u00e7abilir onun s\u0131n\u0131rland\u0131rmaya ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Aile \u015fiddete bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda sadece fiziksel \u015fiddet de\u011fil, psikolojik \u015fiddette vard\u0131r. Bu konu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclen ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan konu. Anneyi babay\u0131 model ama ergenlik ya\u015flar\u0131nda ba\u015flar. Anne veya baban\u0131n durumu nas\u0131lsa o \u00e7ocu\u011fa da o durum yans\u0131r. \u00c7ocukta \u015fiddet g\u00f6rebilir, psikolojide kurban\u0131n sald\u0131rgana d\u00f6n\u00fclmesi diye bir olay var. Uzun vadede \u015fiddet g\u00f6ren \u00e7ocuk ileride kendi \u00e7ocu\u011funa \u015fiddet uygular.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cocuklara_bos_alan_birakilmali_ve_ozgur_birakilmali\"><\/span>\u00c7ocuklara bo\u015f alan b\u0131rak\u0131lmal\u0131 ve \u00f6zg\u00fcr b\u0131rak\u0131lmal\u0131<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklara bo\u015f alan b\u0131rak\u0131lmal\u0131 ve daha \u00f6zg\u00fcr hareketli bir hayat sa\u011flanmal\u0131. Biraz da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n isteklerine g\u00f6re gidilmeli ve \u00e7ok k\u0131s\u0131tlamaya girilmemelidir. \u00c7ocuklar bu d\u00f6nemde kontroll\u00fc serbest b\u0131rak\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu d\u00f6nemde spor yapmas\u0131 te\u015fvik edilmeli ve \u00e7ocuk hangi sporu seviyorsa ona y\u00f6nlendirilmeli.<\/p>\n<p>Ailelerin fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli ve bu konuda bilin\u00e7li olmas\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun ergenlik d\u00f6nemini atlatmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ailelere_pratik_bilgiler\"><\/span><strong>Ailelere pratik bilgiler<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu bekleyen sorunlar konusunda bilgi sahibi olun.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun yarg\u0131layan yap\u0131s\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 sab\u0131rl\u0131 ve itinal\u0131 davran\u0131n.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Okuluyla ili\u015fki kurun. \u00d6\u011fretmenlerinden bilgi al\u0131n.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Do\u011fru ileti\u015fim kurma y\u00f6ntemlerini uygulay\u0131n.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Kat\u0131, sert bir tutum izlemeyin. Sab\u0131rl\u0131, sevgi dolu ve ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc olun.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun durumunda normalden sapan, s\u00fcregelen ve yerle\u015fen davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 fark edin.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Sen b\u00f6ylesin, \u015f\u00f6ylesin demeden, fikrini al\u0131n.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu kesinlikle kimseyle k\u0131yaslamay\u0131n.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n  <div class=\"related-post grid\">\r\n      <div class=\"post-list \">\r\n\r\n            <div class=\"item\">\r\n          \r\n  <a class=\"title post_title\"  title=\"\u0130yi Bir Aile Nas\u0131l Olur?\" href=\"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/iyi-bir-aile-nasil-olur\/\">\r\n        \u0130yi Bir Aile Nas\u0131l Olur?  <\/a>\r\n\r\n        <\/div>\r\n              <div class=\"item\">\r\n          \r\n  <a class=\"title post_title\"  title=\"Aile \u0130\u00e7inde Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u0130leti\u015fimin P\u00fcf Noktalar\" href=\"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/aile-icinde-saglikli-iletisimin-puf-noktalar\/\">\r\n        Aile \u0130\u00e7inde Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u0130leti\u015fimin P\u00fcf Noktalar  <\/a>\r\n\r\n        <\/div>\r\n              <div class=\"item\">\r\n          \r\n  <a class=\"title post_title\"  title=\"Aile \u0130\u00e7i Tart\u0131\u015fma Ve \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm Y\u00f6ntemleri\" href=\"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/aile-ici-tartisma-ve-cozum-yontemleri\/\">\r\n        Aile \u0130\u00e7i Tart\u0131\u015fma Ve \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm Y\u00f6ntemleri  <\/a>\r\n\r\n        <\/div>\r\n              <div class=\"item\">\r\n          \r\n  <a class=\"title post_title\"  title=\"Ergenlik\" href=\"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/ergenlik\/\">\r\n        Ergenlik  <\/a>\r\n\r\n        <\/div>\r\n      \r\n  <\/div>\r\n\r\n  <script>\r\n      <\/script>\r\n  <style>\r\n    .related-post {}\r\n\r\n    .related-post .post-list {\r\n      text-align: left;\r\n          }\r\n\r\n    .related-post .post-list .item {\r\n      margin: 10px;\r\n      padding: 0px;\r\n          }\r\n\r\n    .related-post .headline {\r\n      font-size: 18px !important;\r\n      color: #0b244c !important;\r\n          }\r\n\r\n    .related-post .post-list .item .post_title {\r\n      font-size: 16px;\r\n      color: #080f35;\r\n      margin: 10px 0px;\r\n      padding: 0px;\r\n      display: block;\r\n      text-decoration: none;\r\n          }\r\n\r\n    .related-post .post-list .item .post_thumb {\r\n      max-height: 220px;\r\n      margin: 10px 0px;\r\n      padding: 0px;\r\n      display: block;\r\n          }\r\n\r\n    .related-post .post-list .item .post_excerpt {\r\n      font-size: 13px;\r\n      color: #050b21;\r\n      margin: 10px 0px;\r\n      padding: 0px;\r\n      display: block;\r\n      text-decoration: none;\r\n          }\r\n\r\n    @media only screen and (min-width: 1024px) {\r\n      .related-post .post-list .item {\r\n        width: 45%;\r\n      }\r\n    }\r\n\r\n    @media only screen and (min-width: 768px) and (max-width: 1023px) {\r\n      .related-post .post-list .item {\r\n        width: 90%;\r\n      }\r\n    }\r\n\r\n    @media only screen and (min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 767px) {\r\n      .related-post .post-list .item {\r\n        width: 90%;\r\n      }\r\n    }\r\n\r\n      <\/style>\r\n    <\/div>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ergenlik baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklarda g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcl\u00fc ge\u00e7mektedir.\u00a0Depresif ge\u00e7en duygular\u0131na ifade edemeyen \u00e7ocuklar daha da zorlanabiliyorlar. Ailesinin yan\u0131nda duran uslu \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7e ata ata daha sonra depresif olabiliyor. Ergen anne ve babay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fman olarak g\u00f6rebilir. Onlar d\u00fc\u015fman onlar beni anlam\u0131yor diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir. \u00c7ocuklarla arkada\u015f olmak ile kast edilen onu anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak. Ergenlere sab\u0131rl\u0131 davranmak gerekir Bir ergeni anlamak [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11490,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[1977,1589],"class_list":["post-2008","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile","tag-aile","tag-ergenlik"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2008","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2008"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2008\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":51003,"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2008\/revisions\/51003"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2008"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2008"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2008"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}