{"id":33045,"date":"2025-02-17T16:40:31","date_gmt":"2025-02-17T13:40:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bilgisepeti.net\/?p=1076"},"modified":"2025-02-17T16:40:31","modified_gmt":"2025-02-17T13:40:31","slug":"basarili-olmanin-bes-sirri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/basarili-olmanin-bes-sirri\/","title":{"rendered":"Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 Olman\u0131n Be\u015f S\u0131rr\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>E\u011fer siz de s\u00fcrekli yeni hedefler belirliyor ama hi\u00e7birini hayata koyam\u0131yorsan\u0131z bu yaz\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 mutlaka okumal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Bu yaz\u0131m\u0131zda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olman\u0131n be\u015f s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yoruz.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u00fcrekli \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcze hedefler koyuyor belli bir s\u00fcre sonra yeni hedeler belirleyerek eski hedeflerimizi unutuyoruz. Peki, \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcze koymu\u015f oldu\u011fumuz bu hedefleri nas\u0131l ba\u015far\u0131ya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrece\u011fiz? \u0130\u015fte ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olman\u0131n be\u015f s\u0131rr\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<h2>Ne \u0130stedi\u011finizi Bilin!<\/h2>\n<p>\u201cHer ne i\u015f olsa yapar\u0131m aga!\u201d diyorsan\u0131z bilin ki en ba\u015f\u0131ndan kaybetmi\u015fsiniz. Evet, yetenekli biri olabilirsiniz. Her t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u015feye kabiliyetiniz olabilir fakat bunun bir s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 vard\u0131r. Her \u015feyde iyi olamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n garantisini veriyorum. Yani hen\u00fcz yolun ba\u015f\u0131ndayken kendinize bir \u00e7izgi \u00e7izmeli ve\u00a0<strong>ne istedi\u011finizi bilmelisiniz<\/strong>. Bir g\u00fcn \u201cben doktor olaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d ikinci g\u00fcn \u201cben m\u00fchendis olaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d diyorsan\u0131z yine kaybedenler aras\u0131nda olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kesin. \u015eunu s\u00f6yleyebilirsiniz: \u201cben doktor olaca\u011f\u0131m ama m\u00fczik ile de u\u011fra\u015faca\u011f\u0131m\u201d ama \u00f6b\u00fcr t\u00fcrl\u00fcs\u00fc olmaz! Bir alanda yo\u011funla\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<h2>Kararl\u0131 Olun!<\/h2>\n<p>Hedef belirlemeye y\u00f6nelik karar verdikten sonra i\u015f\u00a0<strong>kararl\u0131 olma\u00a0<\/strong>a\u015famas\u0131nda. Karar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 verecek ard\u0131nda da \u201cevet, ben bunu istiyorum ve ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d diyeceksiniz. Biliyorum, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde karar vermekte zorlan\u0131yor ve bir\u00e7ok etkenden dolay\u0131 kararl\u0131 olam\u0131yoruz. Ama ba\u015far\u0131 istiyorsak kararl\u0131 olmam\u0131z \u015fart!<\/p>\n<h2>\u0130nan\u00e7l\u0131 Olun!<\/h2>\n<p>Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olman\u0131n en ama en \u00f6nemli ko\u015fuludur\u00a0<strong>inan\u00e7l\u0131 olmak<\/strong>. E\u011fer \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yolda inan\u00e7 fakt\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc yan\u0131n\u0131za alm\u0131yorsan\u0131z ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olman\u0131z bir m\u00fccizeye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fecektir. Hayatta kendime rehber edindi\u011fim bu s\u00f6z\u00fc sizinle payla\u015fmak istiyorum. \u201c<strong>\u0130nanmak ba\u015farman\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong>\u201d Evet, ger\u00e7ekten de inanmak \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsenize, m\u00fczisyen olamak istiyorsunuz ama kafan\u0131zda \u201cacaba olabilir miyim\u201d sorular\u0131 yank\u0131lan\u0131yor. Sizce b\u00f6yle bir durumda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olman\u0131z m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fcd\u00fcr? Size ba\u015fka bir soru y\u00f6neltmek istiyorum:<\/p>\n<p>\u0130ki arkada\u015f yola \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Biri yolun ba\u015f\u0131nda \u201cya m\u00fczisyen olsam iyi olur\u201d diyor. Di\u011feri ise \u201c<strong>ben m\u00fczisyen olaca\u011f\u0131m<\/strong>\u201d diyor. Sizce kim ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olur?<\/p>\n<h2>\u0130stikrarl\u0131 Olun!<\/h2>\n<p><strong>\u0130stikrarl\u0131 olmak\u00a0<\/strong>da yine ba\u015far\u0131ya ula\u015fmak i\u00e7in en \u00f6nemli etkenlerden bir tanesidir. Hedeflerinize ula\u015fmak istiyorsan\u0131z her g\u00fcn ayn\u0131 \u015fevkle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Size tavsiyem hedeflerinize ula\u015fmak i\u00e7in yola \u00e7\u0131karken gaza gelipte \u00e7ok y\u00fcklenmeyin kendinize. Zira \u00e7abuk b\u0131kacak ve istikrar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kaybedeceksiniz. Ufak ad\u0131mlarla ba\u015flay\u0131n. Bu hem sizi yolun ba\u015f\u0131nda yormayacak, hem de tek seferde \u015fevkinizi harcamayacakt\u0131r. \u015e\u00f6yle bir \u00f6rnek vermek istiyorum sizlere:<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6rne\u011fimizin konusu Fatma ve Ahmet olsun. Fatma ve Ahmet lise son s\u0131n\u0131f \u00f6\u011frencisi ve senenin ilk g\u00fcnleri. Ahmet \u00fcniversite giri\u015f s\u0131navlar\u0131na \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak i\u00e7in ba\u015flama karar\u0131 al\u0131r ve ilk g\u00fcn hi\u00e7 yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u015fey yapar: Saatlerce ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Fakat ne yaz\u0131k ki hemen ertesi g\u00fcn hevesi ka\u00e7ar ve ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131r. Fatma ise ilk sadece bir saat \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. G\u00fcnden g\u00fcne ise temposunu artt\u0131r\u0131 ve s\u0131navlara \u00e7ok az bir s\u00fcre kalas\u0131ya kadar da ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131r. Yine bir soru: Sizce kim ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olur?<\/p>\n<h2>Ba\u015fka \u015eeylerle de U\u011fra\u015f\u0131n<\/h2>\n<p>\u201cHopbala! Daha yaz\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda tek bir alan ile ilgilenin, ba\u015fka \u015feylerle u\u011fra\u015fmay\u0131n diyordun.\u201d dedi\u011finizi biliyorum. Ama merak etmeyin.\u00a0<strong>Ba\u015fka \u015feylerle de u\u011fra\u015f\u0131n\u00a0<\/strong>derken hem \u00f6\u011fretmen olmay\u0131 hem de polis olmay\u0131 hedefleyin demiyorum. Bunu s\u00f6ylememdeki kas\u0131t \u015fudur:<\/p>\n<p>Sosyal aktiviteleriniz olsun. Kafan\u0131z\u0131 da\u011f\u0131tabilece\u011finiz \u015feyler yap\u0131n. \u00d6rne\u011fin bir m\u00fczik aleti \u00e7almay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenebilirsiniz. Bu hem sizin motivasyonunuzu y\u00fckseltecek hem de hedefleriniz ile daha verimli ilgilenmenize sebebiyet verecektir. M\u00fczik aleti \u00e7almak sadece bir \u00f6rnekti tabi ki. \u0130stedi\u011finiz herhangi bir \u015feyi yapabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Bu yaz\u0131m\u0131zda\u00a0<strong>nas\u0131l ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olunur\u00a0<\/strong>sorusunun cevab\u0131n\u0131 verdik. 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Bu yaz\u0131m\u0131zda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olman\u0131n be\u015f s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yoruz. S\u00fcrekli \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcze hedefler koyuyor belli bir s\u00fcre sonra yeni hedeler belirleyerek eski hedeflerimizi unutuyoruz. Peki, \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcze koymu\u015f oldu\u011fumuz bu hedefleri nas\u0131l ba\u015far\u0131ya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrece\u011fiz? \u0130\u015fte ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olman\u0131n be\u015f s\u0131rr\u0131\u2026 Ne \u0130stedi\u011finizi Bilin! \u201cHer ne [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1962],"tags":[208,4672],"class_list":["post-33045","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kisisel-gelisim","tag-basari","tag-motive"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33045","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33045"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33045\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":51473,"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33045\/revisions\/51473"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33045"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33045"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buradasin.com.tr\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33045"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}